Twinsmom : 她还是个孩子
Note : Twinsmom’s site is down but she needs a place to rant. Hence, my blog. :D
她还是个孩子。
我知道她已经十五岁，算是个小大人。可是想想我们在十五岁的时候，怎么想？怎么做？或许当同样的事情发生在当初只有十五岁的我们的身上，或许我们选择的也会是和她一样的决定。
责怪她，怀疑她，说她傻？不，她一点也不傻，至少她选择在十三岁罢了就结婚，然后把孩子生下来。傻吗？那么把孩子生下来再把宝宝弄死的又怎么说呢？
一点也不傻，她做的完全是一个只有十五岁的孩子所会做的决定，编个谎言把妈妈蒙骗。但是功力却不足以让整件事不留手尾。
好好的和家人说？如果成年的我们需要极大的力量，和勇气来和长辈理论，试想一个十五岁孩子是不是也需要无穷的勇气和力量来把话向父母说出来呢？
我们很喜欢说“如果是我的话，我就….” 说真的，如果当真你是她的话，你就会做和她一样的事。不要说如果你是她，因为你不是她，你不过把自己装进她的皮禳，依旧用你的想法从她的口中说你自己的话。
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[…] 尤其还有一堆东西在心里要放回家里，更是不知如何是好。还好有肥仔，打个电话给他，把东西托在他家放 - - 她还是个孩子。 […]
September 16th, 2006 16:11
it sound so damn ridicolous when i 1st read the news that how she lost her child… how could she left her child playing alone at the corridor while she went in interview herself…
Now things make sense when she said she was lying. At least this is more acceptable.
September 16th, 2006 18:54
Very unforunate, the young mother made a wrong decision. Thankfully the little boy is ok….
September 17th, 2006 03:47
I just read the news..what I don’t get is, it is legal to be married at that age?? I mean, the english news said she was divorced from her 25-y-o husband. If really divorce, I would assume the father of the child would have custody. After all he should have more income (I’m speculating here) than the mother of the child. This is a screw up case.
September 17th, 2006 19:50
还好有肥仔, lolrotf !!
September 17th, 2006 20:39
Cely, I knew she was lying, mother instinct.
CLF, I don’t think the young mother made a wrong decision, she chose to gave away her son for adoption instead of killing him which what we saw in everyday news, what wrong was she told a lie, and not a good one some more, to cover her decision.
Vien, yes, damn screw up, at first the ex not wants to take responsibility, when the thing gone wrong, everyone point the finger to the mother, and the father became like hero, who now agree to take care of the boy.
kai Hong, 唔抵得咧？咭咭咭….
September 18th, 2006 09:39
知我第一个想法是什么吗？哪个麻瘌佬酱无耻。。连13岁的小孩子也玩。那个时候，24/5 岁了，还不会想吗？
September 18th, 2006 09:44
i want millie crepe
September 18th, 2006 09:54
msau, 是啰，玩完咗就咁先。那个男人是不是应该被控强奸呢？反而是报假案的要被告了。
Boss Stewie, right store, wrong department, please come back again another time.
September 18th, 2006 11:50
Boss Stewie : Oi, apa ni?! Mille Crepe in a totally unrelated post? Mau kena diao izzit? :P
September 19th, 2006 02:24
*sidetrack*
hie jason!
saw ur comment at my blog recently.a reply to ur comment :D erm…i’m not that beatrice.. ;) but i do remember ppl getting me mixed up with her back then in 2000.. hahah! i saw her pic before though! :D i’m a different beatrice. so which jason are u? how’d u stumble upon my blog?
September 19th, 2006 02:35
I am Jason Lioh, brats from Kuala Terengganu 2000 workshop. What are the chances of bumping into one who has the same name as another one? Ha! ;) I stumbled upon your blog from a church friend of yours name Gary Lim.
September 19th, 2006 12:59
It’s her “husband’s” fault! How can he make her pregnant at 13?
September 20th, 2006 11:16
emm… Beatrice, since you know you are leaving a sidetrack, then go to Jason previous post lar, why post here? not the right manner you know? and jason you also, redirect lar. next time I don’t post in your blog *bleh* hehehe… no offence, just joking.
Shoppingmum, yah, now the “hubby” become “good person” who will “take care” of the son. damn it man.