yeah dude.. you do that! I understand how you feel coz my dad is also against me blogging. But one way of allowing your dad to see the fun side of blogging is to tell him about the funny things you’ve read and you know, funnies always make people happy. :)
hmm.. well talk nicely to him.. i know many parent is against this sort of thing. mostly if most of parent are conservative type then it is a huge problem…ahaha… try convince them and hope u did well… and also good luck deciding ur Uni… make the right decision and most importantly know what u want and dun be afriad to go for it…
I am glad you INVITED me to say something on your blog. I must put on record some misinformation on your blog.
As far as I can recall - I have NEVER said anything BAD about blogging. I just wish to put across the point that PLEASE give the same priority in your academic studies as blogging!
I would like to express my sincere thanks to all your friends in the BLOG world for helping you to come to the RIGHT decision - STUDY!
The reason your mum and I asked you to think it over is - we do not know whether you are INTERESTED!! We are just too concerned that you are BURNED OUT!! Say what you like, both of us are struggling to come out with $$$ to meet those extras once your PTPN got suspended!! I think we both have the right to know what you are heading to especially your priority in life!!! We are not able to cope if the bill keep on increasing with each failures - where to find the money!!!
As your Mum comes from a very typical Chinese family, you have to tolerate some of her shortcomings in parenting keeping to the old tradition. Please be a little forgiving - she meant no malice but care for you!
I for once will do whatever I can to support you either financially or morally as long as you are FOCUS and KNOW what you want in life.
To put the record straight, I totally reject the word ransacking your computer. I discover your blog when you used MY laptop at home.
There are many other things that I want to say here but I dare NOT because you have WARNED us not to use your blog to complain. Thank you my son for inviting your parents ( your Dad to more precise) into your blog world.
Let’s this be another GOOD way for me to learn a thing about BLOG. Thank you!
Jason..i dun wanna c u uncertain anymore..i will never allow you to work at this moment..though i said i will support u all way through..Study is alwiz important.. As ur daddy has said..he had no mean to ransack ur computer..or ur privacy,,i could understand him..he is juz showing a part of his care..
As for ur mum..You gotta forgive her..As she is also doing her part as a good mummy..She cares and loves you after finding out dat u had done badly on ur study..They are coming out money..n they are expecting to c u success..n excell..The money is not really the most important factor..As parents.theie biggest hope is to c you SUCCESS…
I m glad dat..you are able to sound out ur problem to ur daddy..either you talk to him or write..Good try brother..Your daddy is definitely a GREAT DAD..hw loves you so much..
Jason..Please..study hard when the new sem starts..set up ur goal..n go for it..Blogging is a good way of expressing urself..yet..u hav to put more effort on ur studies..i will support n be with you all da time..though i cant meet u dat often..i really care for u..
All da best to u in ur studies..and also ur relationahip with ur parents..Good luck brother
Jason, Every parents always wants their children to excel in their studies. You will understand when you become a parent yourself.Cheers.
To urgh…… is human.So if your parents disagree with you over something.It most likely it’s for your own good.No parents will want anything bad for their children. Cheers.
Cis, that perasan guy want to be VVIP blogger tapi sendiri punya blog sudah berkulat dan berulat dah. Go back and blog la, Mun Kit. The FrozenLily is going to melt soon.
Dadlioh: Hello, i am kiasu here. Just want to share some experiance about blogging. Actually, my parents and relatives read my blog site everyday, and i think that’s one of the way they get to know me better. I come from a typical chinese family where i seldom communicate with my parents, but through blogging, at least now they understand me better.
Each day, i spent around 1 hour on my blog site, it’s a kind of motivation for me, and i also get to know some friends here. Blogging never affected my studies really, and recently i had just graduated with my Master degree. But i still remembered during my first semester in college, i failed all my subjects, i was a bit lost, maybe it just take some time to get used to the university life. It took me 2 years to find out what i wanted.
By the way, Jason, i think you have a very understanding parent backing you. Maybe just need to try harder, or you just need a bit more time to get to know the correct way to study for exam. In the university, the highest scorer are not those that are the smartest, they get high marks just because they knew how to memorize. Sad. But jason, pls don’t give up, you will do well, and i wish that you will susceed with your life. And hopefully PTPTN won’t suspend your loan.
I’m a new reader of your blog. Actually, I’m from your hometown as well.But I dun think I know you either as from the age, I’m much more older than you.
Below is some advice for you and hope you can tolerate with it….
Jason, pls do appreciate what your parents give you today. Money is really not easy earn. You can go spend on trip and have a nice foods with the pocket money. At the same time, have you really think of what your parents having for their meals on the same day you are having dim sum? Maybe just a simple economy fried mee or a chap fan. If you think you dun have a motivation to improve your attitude in studies, then why not you just proceed to work. This is to prevent you from breaking their hope and waste their money with blood and sweat. Alas, pls do remind yourself to be responsible on your action and decision that you had made in creating your own life. Make sure “NO Regret” in the future.
Sure, you can proceed to blog during your studies time as there is nothing harm. But back to the main point, you should knoe how to divide your time averagely.
Relation of your family and you…will be better if you be more understanding. Try to put yourself in your parents shoes in every situation. There is no one parents will “show a black road for their children to walk”.Maybe the way they behave abit traditional. As the generation pass by, sure your mind will be different from your parents. Thus, I think, by the time you become a parents, you will have another own way to teach them. Understanding and Luv will bring you to more happier family.
Hope you can get the main point and cool down yourself. “Although there is a match, things wont burn out if you don’t light it”. Thats why, u need to forgive your mum and change to a better rather than waiting other to change for u.
Cheers up as always..Feel good in surfing your blog…
I don’t think that you have waste too much time on blogging. Youd dad is too conservative just like mine. this is call parents…… as a pityful teenager , we have to be tough and strong!
May 27th, 2005 15:13
yeah dude.. you do that! I understand how you feel coz my dad is also against me blogging. But one way of allowing your dad to see the fun side of blogging is to tell him about the funny things you’ve read and you know, funnies always make people happy. :)
May 27th, 2005 15:37
all the best. keep your cool…
May 27th, 2005 15:44
Hey…Give you courage!! Add oil!!!
and good luck :>
May 27th, 2005 16:25
hmm.. well talk nicely to him.. i know many parent is against this sort of thing. mostly if most of parent are conservative type then it is a huge problem…ahaha… try convince them and hope u did well… and also good luck deciding ur Uni… make the right decision and most importantly know what u want and dun be afriad to go for it…
cheer…
Keith
http://www.jroller.com/page/keithys
May 27th, 2005 17:32
May the force be with you.
May 27th, 2005 18:46
yeah, may the force be with you.
especially mind trick.
Jase: “See my blog you did not”
Dad: “I did not see your blog”
Jase: “I am free to blog”
Dad: “You are free to blog”
May 27th, 2005 20:09
Jason, well….good luck wif u..i hope u can continue blog ler… hehe… M will support u 1…
May 27th, 2005 21:56
Over already or not? Hope both of you sort out things and you get a new visitor (your dad lah) to your blog!
May 27th, 2005 22:45
Good luck.
May 27th, 2005 23:42
A good communication is important. Do that more often and lead them to learn the good side of blogging.
My fat lady said that my English has improved a little bit compared to last year. Before I blog, written English was like stuck drain.
But after some time blogging sometimes the stuck drain could become a small river with a lot of idea and thoughts flows freely….
And I think that is priceless !!
And blogs sometimes is like a diary for me, I could look back and learn from the mistakes that I’ve done. And that is priceless too !!
May 28th, 2005 14:44
JASON, What I have to say?
I am glad you INVITED me to say something on your blog. I must put on record some misinformation on your blog.
As far as I can recall - I have NEVER said anything BAD about blogging. I just wish to put across the point that PLEASE give the same priority in your academic studies as blogging!
I would like to express my sincere thanks to all your friends in the BLOG world for helping you to come to the RIGHT decision - STUDY!
The reason your mum and I asked you to think it over is - we do not know whether you are INTERESTED!! We are just too concerned that you are BURNED OUT!! Say what you like, both of us are struggling to come out with $$$ to meet those extras once your PTPN got suspended!! I think we both have the right to know what you are heading to especially your priority in life!!! We are not able to cope if the bill keep on increasing with each failures - where to find the money!!!
As your Mum comes from a very typical Chinese family, you have to tolerate some of her shortcomings in parenting keeping to the old tradition. Please be a little forgiving - she meant no malice but care for you!
I for once will do whatever I can to support you either financially or morally as long as you are FOCUS and KNOW what you want in life.
To put the record straight, I totally reject the word ransacking your computer. I discover your blog when you used MY laptop at home.
There are many other things that I want to say here but I dare NOT because you have WARNED us not to use your blog to complain. Thank you my son for inviting your parents ( your Dad to more precise) into your blog world.
Let’s this be another GOOD way for me to learn a thing about BLOG. Thank you!
DAD LIOH
May 28th, 2005 16:19
Hope everything ends well, bro.
May 28th, 2005 16:51
i agree that academic excellence is more important than blogging. take a break maybe you will feel less attached :)
May 28th, 2005 16:55
This is what I learned when I was very very young like 7-8 years old. It says:
Work Hard Study Hard
Don’t Break your parent’s heart!!
Hahaha..you think your parents print money ah?? ..jk..
May 28th, 2005 22:57
jason see what u dad write…..u read it carefully.. i agree wif what ur dad say… u shud forgive ur mum…
be a good son, brother… n dun give up on ur academic…ur dad will support u always..
May 29th, 2005 00:58
see,jason, i already told you to speak with ur dad.
so from now on no more “sort of’s” alright?
please please please be more certain in making a decision.
i really really really pray that u’ll be able to focus focus and focus in ur studies when sem rstart.
all the best.
i’m so happy u talked to dad :)
May 29th, 2005 13:46
Jason..i dun wanna c u uncertain anymore..i will never allow you to work at this moment..though i said i will support u all way through..Study is alwiz important..
As ur daddy has said..he had no mean to ransack ur computer..or ur privacy,,i could understand him..he is juz showing a part of his care..
As for ur mum..You gotta forgive her..As she is also doing her part as a good mummy..She cares and loves you after finding out dat u had done badly on ur study..They are coming out money..n they are expecting to c u success..n excell..The money is not really the most important factor..As parents.theie biggest hope is to c you SUCCESS…
I m glad dat..you are able to sound out ur problem to ur daddy..either you talk to him or write..Good try brother..Your daddy is definitely a GREAT DAD..hw loves you so much..
Jason..Please..study hard when the new sem starts..set up ur goal..n go for it..Blogging is a good way of expressing urself..yet..u hav to put more effort on ur studies..i will support n be with you all da time..though i cant meet u dat often..i really care for u..
All da best to u in ur studies..and also ur relationahip with ur parents..Good luck brother
May 29th, 2005 16:34
Oh wow, this is like a real life drama but I am glad to be part of it too. The pelakon pembantu. Being the ‘bad guy’ who nags. Hehehehe.
I am so touched with Dad Lioh’s words and I know that both of you are going to have a much more open communication from now on.
And yeah, Jason, go study and make your parents proud! Cheers!
BTW, are you going to add Dad Lioh as your VVIP guest blogger? We (the parents blogger) will certainly welcome him.
May 29th, 2005 17:18
Sorry the position of VVIP guest blogger has already been taken by yours truly
May 29th, 2005 19:03
Jason,
Every parents always wants their children to excel in their studies. You will understand when you become a parent yourself.Cheers.
To urgh…… is human.So if your parents disagree with you over something.It most likely it’s for your own good.No parents will want anything bad for their children. Cheers.
May 29th, 2005 21:01
Cis, that perasan guy want to be VVIP blogger tapi sendiri punya blog sudah berkulat dan berulat dah. Go back and blog la, Mun Kit. The FrozenLily is going to melt soon.
May 29th, 2005 22:47
Dadlioh: Hello, i am kiasu here. Just want to share some experiance about blogging. Actually, my parents and relatives read my blog site everyday, and i think that’s one of the way they get to know me better. I come from a typical chinese family where i seldom communicate with my parents, but through blogging, at least now they understand me better.
Each day, i spent around 1 hour on my blog site, it’s a kind of motivation for me, and i also get to know some friends here. Blogging never affected my studies really, and recently i had just graduated with my Master degree. But i still remembered during my first semester in college, i failed all my subjects, i was a bit lost, maybe it just take some time to get used to the university life. It took me 2 years to find out what i wanted.
By the way, Jason, i think you have a very understanding parent backing you. Maybe just need to try harder, or you just need a bit more time to get to know the correct way to study for exam. In the university, the highest scorer are not those that are the smartest, they get high marks just because they knew how to memorize. Sad. But jason, pls don’t give up, you will do well, and i wish that you will susceed with your life. And hopefully PTPTN won’t suspend your loan.
MrKiasu.
July 7th, 2005 16:20
Hi Jason,
I’m a new reader of your blog.
Actually, I’m from your hometown as well.But I dun think I know you either as from the age, I’m much more older than you.
Below is some advice for you and hope you can tolerate with it….
Jason, pls do appreciate what your parents give you today. Money is really not easy earn. You can go spend on trip and have a nice foods with the pocket money. At the same time, have you really think of what your parents having for their meals on the same day you are having dim sum? Maybe just a simple economy fried mee or a chap fan.
If you think you dun have a motivation to improve your attitude in studies, then why not you just proceed to work. This is to prevent you from breaking their hope and waste their money with blood and sweat.
Alas, pls do remind yourself to be responsible on your action and decision that you had made in creating your own life. Make sure “NO Regret” in the future.
Sure, you can proceed to blog during your studies time as there is nothing harm. But back to the main point, you should knoe how to divide your time averagely.
Relation of your family and you…will be better if you be more understanding. Try to put yourself in your parents shoes in every situation. There is no one parents will “show a black road for their children to walk”.Maybe the way they behave abit traditional. As the generation pass by, sure your mind will be different from your parents. Thus, I think, by the time you become a parents, you will have another own way to teach them.
Understanding and Luv will bring you to more happier family.
Hope you can get the main point and cool down yourself.
“Although there is a match, things wont burn out if you don’t light it”.
Thats why, u need to forgive your mum and change to a better rather than waiting other to change for u.
Cheers up as always..Feel good in surfing your blog…
Cheers,
SameHometownGal
February 7th, 2006 08:41
I don’t think that you have waste too much time on blogging. Youd dad is too conservative just like mine. this is call parents…… as a pityful teenager , we have to be tough and strong!