Traffic Or Intention?
Regarding the previous post on “Do You Miss Me?“, there are so many people telling me those usual stuff that you could read it in the comments section. However, I was not sad about it instead I was very happy yesterday as there were a number of happy things that happened. The post is not really about the sad stuff I have written there though. Besides, not to mention that I spent another 2 hours with Mc D’ girl before this. I am on my move already, so there is nothing to worry about. I am sorry that I have somehow made my visitors around sad or pissed with my sad post, but thank you for your concern.
Recently, somebody mentioned that I am a little bit worked up with the traffic of my blog and nearly becoming obsessed with it. I have to admit that, no doubt. I have been checking my traffic every end of the day, just to see the details of the traffic of my blog. She said that it is very important to know the consequences you get from the comments and feedback after every posts, since there are regular visitors.
This strike me a question. Should I start to filter out what I should and what I should not post? Should I post something that might catches my regular visitors’ interest? Should I post something that is funny that might cheers up my regular visitors’ mood? Should I do this or should I do that?
However, after giving it some thinking while watching Hong Kong drama series on the television around 6PM, I remembered the biggest reason why I started to blog - to write out what I want to write and to make myself feel better after I write them out. I like to write, as writing is the strongest skills I have among all my socializing skills. I am not good at talking, hanging out, joking or doing any non-verbal communications, but I know I am able to convey my thoughts through writing. Alicia, owner of Lobaksoup was the one who inspired me to start my own blog. I always wanted to start my own blog, but I was shy in the very first place, thinking that I have nothing to write nor I could write as good as many bloggers out there. However, after reading Lobaksoup, I finally made my step and I joined the wonderful world of blogging.
Now, being obsessed with the traffic, I am sort of off track from my original intention of blogging. I am die trying to post something that could make my regular visitors to come back for more. But now, being reminded by that somebody, I think I should get on track again, back to the ground and to the reason of why I started blogging. I shall write what I want to write but not what people want to read. However, I shall try my very best to be a very happy person and minimize all the sad entries as much as possible, ok?
I am very happy currently. -whistling-
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February 25th, 2005 03:25
*shakes head*
Budak… you misunderstood me adi lah…it’s still alright to put in sad entries.
YOUR blog wert…:P
February 25th, 2005 03:26
yeah it’s YOUR blog
February 25th, 2005 09:27
ppl come to your blog for what you are.. not what they want you to be… so keep writing.. i’m sure you will find the correct audience :)
February 25th, 2005 09:33
You traffic really quite a lot. The day you put my link my traffic also experienced a spike.
And I thought why I’m popular suddenly ..ha…
Yes, be yourself, be sincere.
But also I watch what I say now.
Keep blogging :)
February 25th, 2005 09:33
I agree with Munkit .Your blog is exactly what it is..YOUR BLOG.... Do not write for an audience..just be yourself… happy or sad
February 25th, 2005 11:22
Be happy bro! cheers! :)
February 25th, 2005 13:24
When you are sad and you expressed it, we are trying to give you supports. When you are happy we share your joys. There is no point writing something for the sake of others if you don’t mean it. You will sound so fake that its no fun reading your blog anymore. =)
February 25th, 2005 13:36
Hey, your blog is improving and improving each day. It is thought provoking sometimes, and at times, I learn about parenting skills from it. Like telling myself, so, this is how my son is going to think/go through in another few years etc. In fact, blogs represent all layers of society and if one has an open heart, one can learn a lot from reading blogs. Whether it is about how our parents feel, our friends, colleagues, siblings, children, etc.
I know Jason is going to do a triple flip to see SleekBlackMercs here! That makes your day, right?
February 25th, 2005 14:01
April - :P Haha,thanks alot.You are the girl that always give me support and enlighten me.
JxT2J - Yeah,it is mine.I am very proud of it.
MunKit - Thanks for your encouragement.Hopefully you are one of my audience.;-)
Earthtone - Haha,glad that I made you feel popular.Yaloh,got to becareful sometimes.
Romantic - I will.:)
Hustler - First time seeing you here.Its my honour then.Welcome to my blog and you too,stay happy!
Pigging princess - Alright.Thanks for being there with me when I am sad or happy.Hehe,glad that you enjoy reading my blog.:)
5xmom - Thanks for the compliment.I agree with you,it represent a lot of things from one society,and there are much to learn about.Haha!Teenagers don’t like to tell parents their stuff,through blogging,it really helps.But then hor,I didn’t tell my parents that I have a blog,you know.Seriously,if I do,my mum gonna questioned alot.-sweat-
Haha!-Doing triple flip- :P Yeah,was surprise to see hustler was here.Not only that,Doc drop by to wish me happy belated birthday as well at the birthday post. :) But there are more reasons for me to be happy throughout the day.
February 25th, 2005 20:14
ARGH.. my parents read my blog ahahha sometimes they complain about my language :P i tell them KNN :PpP
February 26th, 2005 01:58
Go ahead ! dun write to get ppl come, let ppl come to see what u write
just like myself language is my biggest problem but i still blog ..
some time i would even think will ppl think language so bad lots of grammer mistake still dare to blog..
but this wont stop me .. ^^ cheers for blogger !